During our early to mid-twenties is when we really start to find ourselves. We overcome obstacles and pretty much learn who we are or who we want to be. We start to become better people and begin to reach certain successes. This is when best friends become strangers.
6 SIGNS THAT YOUR FRIEND IS SECRETLY JEALOUS OF YOU OR YOUR SUCCESS
1. SHE DOWNPLAYS YOUR ACCOMPLISHMENTS. You get a promotion at your job, a placement in a big magazine or get the new condo you always wanted and she acts like it’s no big deal.
2.SHE THROWS SEMI-SHADE ON YOUR INSTAGRAM PHOTOS. You post a cute flick on Instagram and she comments “You should do something else with your hair” or “Is that the shirt from the clearance rack at Macy’s.” Now, there’s nothing wrong with a friend asking a question or voicing their opinion but negative comments on IG isn’t exactly exemplary. She’s totally throwing shade.
3. SHE ACTS DIFFERENT IN THE PRESENCE OF OTHER PEOPLE. You two are hanging out with a group of guys and she’s constantly pointing out your flaws. “Omg, look at the mole on her face; isn’t that so weird guys?”
4. SHE’S NOT OPTIMISTIC WHEN YOU TELL HER YOUR IDEAS You tell your friend your thinking of opening up a new business and her response is “I think that’s a lot for you to manage.” Friends should always motivate you to chase your dreams, big or small.
5. SHE BECOMES DISTANT You call your friend to hang out and it’s always “I’m busy.” You text your friend just to chat and long conversations become one worded answers.
6. SHE HATES YOUR MAN FOR NO REASON. She constantly throws dirt on your man’s name and you never gave her a reason to. (Sidebar- this doesn’t count if you’re dating a cheating dog)