Rapper J. Cole has always been one to keep himself out of the media as much as possible. Now, although we don't hear many rumors about what's going on inside of his relationship, we do know that he has been in a long term relationship. He is currently dating a succesful NYC wedding planner named Melissa. The two met during J.cole's rise to stardom while attending St. John's university. Melissa was caught on a NYC bridal store's instagram with the caption " “Congratulations to our newest bride #weddinggown #weddingdress #lfaybridal #nycbride call us for your appointment in our new location". That's totally a confirmation to me, what do you think?