With all the stories circulating the media about some of the baddest celebrities in the industry getting cheated on, there's no way that you might not question your relationship or yourself as a woman all together. I know I personally have. Sometimes I sit back and ask myself is it worth putting your all into a man knowing that somewhere down the line he's going to cheat on you. I know what some of you are thinking "not all men cheat". Now, this may be true but think about it, if certified 10s like Kim Kardashian, Amber Rose and Beyonce can get cheated on. Who are you? Not just who are you but who am I, who is any female? This situation drove me crazy for a little while but eventually I planted in my head that "all men are dogs". One evening while scrolling down my timeline I seen a guy quote a Joe Budden lyric where he basically stated "for every bad chick there's a guy tired of sexing her". This immediately brought a light bulb into my head and I decided it was time for me to ask the guys "why they cheat so much?". To my suprise not one guy mentioned anything about looks. Ofcourse, there were the few guys that told me they cheated because being with one woman wa s just too boring for them. But for the most part I was told it was because their partner lacks something. Something we might not see as important at the moment but it is very important. Whether it be conversation wise, sexual or just simply showing support. The funny part about us females is we usually never start off lacking in those areas. We usually go into the situation sexing our man daily, sharing thoughts as well as dreams and being his #1fan. When we decide to get too comfortable is when we open the door for other woman to step in. I know sometimes it gets hard to be the woman he first met while juggling a family, a career and your beauty but it's necessary. Send him a sexy picture during the day while he's at work, ask him about his day, don't annoy him while the game is on and always be the best you, that you can be. Thank me later!